This does mean that I will do some writing about green wedding research, but I also don't intend to let that topic take over
But, because it has been less than a week since "the question," I think I'm still allowed to be more girly than normal. Here's an update on my green wedding considerations thus far (in no particular order):
1) Keep the numbers limited. More people equals more travel, stuff, costs...
2) Pick a venue that I feel good about supporting, i.e. a park. Ideally it should be close for most guests to travel to.
3) Encourage guests to purchase carbon offsets for their travel.
4) Use a caterer who sources locally, has organic options, and is veggie-friendly (a must for the vegetarian bride and groom!).
5) Find a natural materials, second-hand wedding dress. Donate or sell after the big day.
6) Minimize waste and materials - i.e. paper for invitations, favors, etc.
7) Keep gifts under control. That doesn't necessarily mean don't register, but only ask for things we can really use to get started. Try an alternative registery to include second hand and handmade items. Include donations and carbon credits as registry "asks."
8) Green the honeymoon. I know we will want to travel, so we will plan to purchase offsets. Look into ecotourism options that support local communities and preservation of biodiversity.
9) Pick reusable items whenever possible. This includes rewearable bridesmaids' dresses, rentals for the guys, centerpieces, etc.
10) Try to grow our own flowers.
11) Minimize electrical use - perhaps a green DJ?
12) Maintain a balanced life and don't let the wedding take over!
I'm sure I will figure out many more things along the way. Wish me luck!